How to flirt with a guy over text

How to flirt with a guy over textHow to flirt with a guy over text that makes him fall in love with you.

Hey, ladies!
Meeting someone for the first time or trying to get to know a guy could be a little overwhelming. But, if you have his phone number you’re already halfway there. Calling him might not be the best idea because you don’t want to come across as desperate. I have the perfect solution for you.

Text him! The act of flirting has been a crucial part of the dating game for ages. The evolution from fleeting glances to roses to unsigned gifts has now reached the modern stage of text messages. Text messages and social media have made communication a lot easier and fun. Flirt texting also gives you the opportunity to think properly before responding. So, if you’re the shy type flirt texting is perfect for YOU.

Flirting with a guy through texts could be a lot of fun especially when you know what you’re doing, why you’re doing it and how you should do it.

Here are a few easy flirting tips that will keep you at the edge of your seats and the top of your flirting game:

Make a move!

Try to initiate the conversation. Waiting for him to text first could be a little frustrating. Remember to keep the text short and straightforward. A casual text message is just fine, but you could spice it up a bit by sending a funny text. Flirt texting should not be in tones that are too serious. You don’t want to scare him away.

Be fun!

Smileys and emoticons are flirty and fun while texting. In fact, sometimes a wink and a pleasant greeting are all you need to begin the flirt texting. For example, “Hi Adam 😉

Be personal!

Don’t be scared to personalize your texts when flirting. Starting a conversation with his name is usually very sweet, and it makes texting feel more intimate between you two.

Also, try to bring up moments that involve the both of you. For example, “I’m listening to your favorite band”. Memories from a previous date or the day you met could help start a great conversation. Avoid texts like “Hey you” or “What’s up”. Such texts are a perfect recipe for a boring chat.

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When he finally responds to your text try not to reply too early. You do not want to seem too eager to talk to him. A little delay prior to your response will give you time to think carefully about your answer to his text and also keep him expectant.

Compliment him!

Yes! Guys love compliments from girls. If he has paid you a compliment in the past, it will be sweet of you to return the favor. But do not shower him in praises; you don’t want to seem insecure. Just be nice.

Be mysterious!

Ladies, please don’t flirt with him in a clear way. The whole point of flirting is NOT to come across as being flirty.
Try not to give too much information away when texting. Keep your replies short and straightforward. Do not feel the need to explain every statement you make. When he’s not too clear on your answers, change the topic. Leaving him confused will make him more interested in the chase!

A Sense of humor!

Guys will always remember girls that made them laugh. If you can put a smile on his face, he will develop a soft spot for you. You don’t need to be too funny, but a little humor makes flirt texting more interesting. He will appreciate your effort, and this will keep him entertained.

Tease him!

Teasing creates a platform for intimacy without being too “naughty”. Teasing him while you flirt will help build tension between both of you. A little tease in your flirty text messages will keep him thinking of good comebacks to send to you all the time.

Ask questions!

Guys love girls who show that they care a little. Feel free to ask him about his day. Simple questions like “How are you dear?” or “Hope you had a beautiful day?” will get him talking and make him care to ask you the same. This tip will help you keep your conversation sweet and intimate.


Sending a guy nude pictures is not allowed. Do NOT send nudes to a guy you’re flirt texting. If you are interested in a serious relationship, do not send nudes during the flirting stage. It is all kinds of wrong and paints a bad picture of who you are.
Instead, you could send a fresh out of the shower picture with just your face and wet hair. That should keep him interested and crave for more. A cute, sweaty picture after your morning workout is also another way to draw him in sexually without actually jeopardizing your standards and privacy.
Also, sending him silly pictures is another way to display your sense of humor. Remember, a picture can say more than a thousand words.

Excellent grammar!

Always make sure to proofread and check your texts before you send them. Too many grammatical errors could be a huge turn-off. Keep your grammar simple and easy to read.
Punctuation marks are great expressions while flirt texting. They give him an idea of your current tone and mood. Keep exclamation and question marks to a minimum and avoid using unnecessary abbreviations and slangs, they could be quite distracting.

Be a good girl!

Encourage him and make him feel good about himself. Boosting his ego will make him feel better about himself, and most especially, he’ll be more interested in you. Everybody likes to be around people who make them feel good about themselves.
Sometimes, a simple quote or a phrase with a powerful statement is all it takes. He won’t be able to stay away from you for too long if he feels his best around you.

Change the topic!

Observe when the chat is going in the wrong direction and master the art of changing the subject. It is important to know where to draw the line when flirt texting. Try not to text dirty or too trashy when flirting (especially if you just met).
There is a fine line between dirty messages and flirty messages. Do not ever cross this line.

Be Yourself!

This tip is the golden rule. Never pretend to be someone you are not while flirt texting. Do not text things you would not usually say or do in person. Stay calm and do not let your messages make you seem too jumpy. Do not overdo anything, just be original. Let him get to know the real you.
Relax, you are the best version of you, and I’m sure he will realize how amazing you are in no time.

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