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What could be more frustrating than having to demand attention, love and care from a guy who used to be all over you? This is the problem many women face these days and it has definitely ruined a lot of relationships.
Maybe during the first few months of the relationship or the first few dates, his interest in you was at its peak. Now suddenly or sometimes gradually, you find yourself struggling to get him to even pay any attention to you.
Suddenly, he’s too busy or too preoccupied to spend time with you compared to when you first met.
This is as a result of him losing interest and pulling away. Why? There are a lot of reasons behind this behavioral pattern in some men.
Some guys lose interest after the chase and the moment you seem to be interested, they get put off and begin to pull back. Whiles some are really not emotionally available and run at the slightest sight of seriousness in the relationship. And others have low self-esteem and believe in dating as many girls as possible within the shortest time just to feel good.
Alternatively, maybe you have been in a relationship with a guy for a while now (maybe months or years) and you realize things are not as good as they used to be between you both.
He might not know it yet, but you want him to realize that he is gradually losing you. The relationship might not have gone south yet, but you can feel yourself slowly slipping away and you want him to put in more effort.
He might be taking you for granted and not seem as interested in your personal affairs as he used to.
You noticed the signs from the sex or just from the recent lack of affection and you want things to go back to the way they were or even better!
If you want him to realize he is losing you, there are several measures and approaches you can use. Most of these approaches begin with you! Here are a few:
Quit apologizing swiftly without actually doing anything wrong just because you want to keep him. Stop acting jealous of other women, especially around him.
Reduce the amount of times you seek his opinion and avoid calling him whenever you are down or upset. Be emotionally stable. He will notice you are strong with or without him and this should be a huge sign for him.
I’m not saying you should not care at all, but show less interest in his welfare. Stop asking about his day or his whereabouts too frequently.
Don’t pay too much attention to his personal needs anymore. If he has not had lunch or dinner, don’t ask. Let him be the one to notice your silence and bring up conversation about it.
No More Excuses
Making excuses for him every time he messes up or disappoints you is one of the reasons he doesn’t notice he’s losing you. Quit tolerating his bad behaviors and shortcomings.
You are not a victim in the relationship and he has to realize that. He will only value you more when he knows there are consequences for his actions.
You need to know what direction you are going in your life. There is nothing sexier to a man than a serene, smart and emotionally mature woman.
Men love to be the hero, but that doesn’t mean you have to be in distress all the time. Become financially and emotionally independent to get his attention even more. He won’t realize he is losing you if you keep clinging onto him.
Are you guilty of not looking as attractive as you used to when he first met you? If you have gotten so comfortable around him that you no longer see reasons to look your best, you need to stop.
If you have added a few pounds in the not-so-attractive areas of your body, try to shed it. Looking good will help you feel good and this will turn his focus to you.
If you have any resentment towards him, let it go. His commitment to the relationship is more important than keeping grudges.
Try not to bring up his past mistakes when you are having conversation. This will allow an air of optimism and he will find it very attractive.
Don’t always be available for a visit or a date. He will feel like he’s losing his grip on you and he will try to make up for it.
Wear sexy lingerie to bed and try to look appealing during the day as well. Say no to stained, oversized t-shirts simply because you are indoors.
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Improve the sex
If you’re used to having boring sex, you need to turn it a notch or two higher. Men love sex and what better way to get his attention than to be a little different in bed? Try new moves on him but don’t give away too much at first.
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Do not give him the impression that he is the best you could have. He needs to know that you are a catch and you are not afraid to look for better.
Go out with your friends more and take your job more serious. He will notice the distance and should try to make up for it.
There is only so much you can do so don’t out-do yourself. If he is not ready to hold on, let it go. Trying too hard might only make things worse.
Never let him feel too in control of your life. If after showing him signs he doesn’t respond positively, speak up and let him know. He needs to make the choice to hold on or let go.